PinnedTriggeredI am baaaaack! The rainy season is finally here ! I couldn’t have asked for a better time to get back to writing. The cold and rainy season is my best season! After so much outcry due to dry crops, hunger, dust and shortage of water among other challenges in no particular order…Trigger Warning7 min readTrigger Warning7 min read
Dec 26, 2022Worried you have no friends?I wish life were a fantasy. It would then be easy for us to just change everything because fantasies have an easy way of going about things, like from having zero to many close friends. Unfortunately this is real life. And in real life things are different. They take time…Mental Health9 min readMental Health9 min read
Nov 11, 2022A writer’s LamentationsA writer’s Lamentations What are the very worst thoughts you have had about yourself? I do not how much this qualifies as an article, but perhaps it shall be a personal journal of all the horrible things I have thought about myself. Naturally, we remember what happens more recently than…Mental Health5 min readMental Health5 min read
Nov 11, 2022How to not “Handle your Sh*t”“Fail forward. Fail better” Who hasn’t heard those words at least once in their lives? And yet many of us keep failing, the same way we failed the last times. …Ghosting7 min readGhosting7 min read
Sep 29, 2022Ubuntu is … recognizing and healing your traumasUbuntu is … recognizing and healing your traumas I grew up in poverty. That means, that for the most part, I grew up not knowing what success looked like. The one rich person in our village was so rich; none of us had ever seen him. At least I had…Ubuntu7 min readUbuntu7 min read
Sep 21, 2022The Tragedy of Comparing Ourselves with OthersThe Tragedy of Comparing Ourselves with Others It feels like I have only ever failed. I have felt that way too many times. I wonder who can relate. I am twenty five years old, and as of today, twenty five years, four months and one day. “And it is taking…Comparison9 min readComparison9 min read
Jul 14, 2022Are you stuck?I have been stuck. Stuck for a very long time. Feeling small. Seeing myself as small. Feeling and seeing myself as one without a choice. Feeling as if things happen to me, and not me making them happen. …Getting Unstuck17 min readGetting Unstuck17 min read
Jun 21, 2022Social Media: The Illusive “Evidence” that we are “fine”It has been forever since I posted on any of my social media accounts … haha not that anyone cares, haha; and neither does it matter; but I am still very alive and kicking. …Mental Health6 min readMental Health6 min read
May 19, 202225 and with aging anxiety, sounds familiar?Greetings my dearest gentle reader, I am turning 25! Today I am not writing much, just being honest, like always. …Mental Health17 min readMental Health17 min read
May 1, 2022Men, Seriously?!!!!Okay, I am about to tell you stories. I thought it would be a rant, but it is actually mostly happy escapist kind of serious but mostly light ranting. So let’s talk about men. Haha, okay, just to be clear, because it sounds like a serious topic, let me just…Men12 min readMen12 min read
